This post was originally published in November 2021 and was revised by other contributors in November 2024.
Experiencing American holidays is one of the best parts of being on the Au Pair cultural exchange program.
On the fourth Thursday of November most people in the U.S. celebrate Thanksgiving. You’ve probably heard stories or seen movies that showed families celebrating Thanksgiving together. You might be thinking, ‘That food looks strange’ or ‘Why do Americans watch football on this day?’ We want to give you some tips for getting the most out of this ultra-American holiday.
The Origin of Thanksgiving
Thanksgiving originated in 1621 when the Plymouth colonists (or “Pilgrims”) and the native Wampanoag people shared an feast after a plentiful autumn harvest. [Learn more about the history of Thanksgiving]. Nowadays, Thanksgiving remains a day where families and friends get together to express gratitude.
Thanksgiving Foods
It’s tradition to eat a big meal on Thanksgiving. Here are some things you’ll likely see on the dinner table: turkey, stuffing, cranberry sauce, gravy, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, and pumpkin pie just to name a few. The food may look weird and unfamiliar to you, but try it all! Jacqueline, an au pair from Brazil, said, “At first everything was strange, and I didn’t think I would like anything. But, it became my favorite meal in this country since then.”
How to Celebrate Thanksgiving as an Au Pair
First, don’t be shy to share your culture. The first Thanksgiving was a celebration of cultural exchange, with the Native Americans teaching the Pilgrims how to hunt and find local fruits like grapes and cranberries. In return, the Pilgrims introduced English crops like cabbage and carrots to the menu. Let that be even more of a reason to add some authentic El Salvadorian pupusas to your host family’s appetizer spread, or a delicious Italian tiramisu to the dessert selection. Jacqueline said, “My host kids love when I make brigadeiro, a typical Brazilian dessert”.
You may be asked to share about something you’re grateful for as part of the conversation during dinner. You can probably think of many things this year, especially as an au pair!
Many American families watch NFL football on Thanksgiving Day. The NFL has been playing football games on Thanksgiving Day since 1934. Two teams who almost always play on this day are the Dallas Cowboys and Detroit Lions. You might also want to tune into the famous Macy’s Thanksgiving Day parade. It’s been a tradition in New York City since 1924 and is broadcast across the country. Ask your host family what channel you can watch the parade on Thanksgiving morning. If you’re close to Manhattan, you may want to go watch it in person!
Although not exactly part of Thanksgiving, Black Friday is a big day for sales. It usually begins on Thanksgiving night. Many host parents will have the Friday after Thanksgiving (Black Friday) off from work and they may want to do some holiday shopping. Be sure to ask what your schedule will be on Black Friday before making your shopping plans!
Whether you’re celebrating with your host family or new friends, be sure to make it a day to remember. Try new foods, watch new sports, check out the parade, and share what you’re thankful for this year! And remember that Thanksgiving is just the beginning of the holiday season in the USA! Read about other holiday traditions that you may be unfamiliar with.
