{"id":10615,"date":"2024-05-20T17:07:06","date_gmt":"2024-05-20T17:07:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.aupairusa.org\/host-families\/?p=10615"},"modified":"2024-05-20T17:07:08","modified_gmt":"2024-05-20T17:07:08","slug":"celebrating-exchange-with-mexican-au-pair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.aupairusa.org\/host-families\/cultural-exchange-stories\/celebrating-exchange-with-mexican-au-pair\/","title":{"rendered":"Washington Family Celebrates Cultural Exchange with Their Mexican Au Pair"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"bsf_rt_marker\"><\/div>\n<p>Raising toddlers is no easy task. That\u2019s a big part of the reason why Shefali Shukla and her husband Ajay Marar decided to welcome an au pair into their home a couple years ago. Now with two children ages four and two, their Mexican au pair, Freda, has been instrumental in helping the Marar family. Shefali lovingly refers to her as \u201cthe boss lady of this house\u201d, helping manage the operations and schedules and bringing a lot of fun along the way too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While childcare support has certainly been a major benefit for the Marars, au pair Freda (20) has also brought a new culture into the Marar Indian-American home\u2014her Mexican one. Freda and her host family not only celebrate each other\u2019s cultures inside their Washington State community, but also have loved traveling together since Freda\u2019s arrival in the spring of 2023.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-rounded\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.aupairusa.org\/host-families\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2024\/05\/image_6483441-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-10616\" title=\"Photo courtesy of host mom Shefali\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.aupairusa.org\/host-families\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2024\/05\/image_6483441-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.aupairusa.org\/host-families\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2024\/05\/image_6483441-1-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>In September of 2023, both family and au pair visited Canc\u00fan, Mexico. Freda\u2019s family, who lives a flight away in Queretaro, made the trip to Canc\u00fan to meet the Marars and visit their daughter. It was a great way for the Marar family to meet their au pair\u2019s parents and sisters and learn about where she came from. In true cultural exchange form, the Marars cooked a delightful Indian dinner for Freda\u2019s family and hosted them in their AirBnB. Freda\u2019s family didn\u2019t arrive empty handed to the cultural exchange event, bringing the Marars the best Mexican tequila they\u2019d ever had!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just a month later in October 2023, The Marars took another international trip with their au pair to visit extended family in India. Freda joined them there and got to celebrate Diwali in its birthplace. Freda enjoyed making Indian dishes that are part of the festival and even participated in making beautiful, powdered chalk designs to decorate for the holiday. \u201cFreda turned out to be a natural artist. Everyone was complimenting her,\u201d said host mom, Shefali .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As host mom Shefali embarks on a new entrepreneurial journey, she remains so grateful to Freda and the au pair experience. Hosting au pairs has allowed her family to do lots of fun things, like traveling. Shefali says she knows the future will be easier, even while starting a business, with an extra set of hands in the house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Marars will sadly be saying goodbye to Freda this month as her au pair program comes to an end and she returns to Mexico to study aeronautical engineering. The Marars will welcome their next au pair from Colombia. But, the strong bond between host family and au pair remains. Shefali says her children will have a tough time being away from Freda, so the family is already planning future visits to Mexico and France, where Freda will spend some time during her university studies. Freda plans to return to the U.S. to visit the Marars during her summer vacation as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Host mom Shefali\u2019s advice to future host families? \u201cBe open to the experience, like really open. There are many ways to host an au pair. You can each do your own thing. Try to make opportunities where you can be in environments outside the working environment. Working with little children is the hardest job on the planet, and the au pairs do a lot. Keep that in mind and create opportunities to bond. It will go a long way in developing good relationships.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ready to host your next au pair and experience the magic of cultural exchange in your home? <a href=\"https:\/\/passport.aupairusa.org\/host-family-apply\">Apply for free<\/a> with Au Pair USA!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Raising toddlers is no easy task. 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