{"id":10528,"date":"2024-02-17T21:45:31","date_gmt":"2024-02-17T21:45:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.aupairusa.org\/host-families\/?p=10528"},"modified":"2024-03-27T19:36:04","modified_gmt":"2024-03-27T19:36:04","slug":"au-pair-usa-2023-super-au-pair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.aupairusa.org\/host-families\/advice\/au-pair-usa-2023-super-au-pair\/","title":{"rendered":"Meet Au Pair USA\u2019s 2023 Super Au Pair: Fatima!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"bsf_rt_marker\"><\/div>\n<p>When Fatima first arrived in the U.S. in August 2022, she had no idea how much the Au Pair program would test her resilience and strength. After two matches with families that were not the right fit in her first year, she wasn\u2019t sure remaining another year in the U.S. as an au pair was the best decision for her. She was nervous and scared to interview again. She contemplated returning home. But, Fatima reminded herself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>I\u2019m not a person who gives up easily.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Then Fatima met Brian and Sarah Bellinkoff. They were a new family with one son, Levi. From the start, their conversations were full of laughter, and Fatima felt an immediate connection. After their second interview, Fatima found herself chatting with her soon-to-be host family more and more. Host mom Sarah extended a match offer, and Fatima happily accepted. In six weeks, they\u2019d officially be living together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fatima\u2019s arrival was warm and welcoming. When she arrived in L.A., where the Bellinkoffs live, Brian and Sarah showed her all around. Sarah took her to the library, the farmer\u2019s market, and other local spots in the neighborhood. The Bellinkoffs have continued to include Fatima in their weekend plans, visiting The Bridge museum, the Santa Monica Aquarium, multiple beaches, and even Florida to visit Brian\u2019s family. Fatima has loved meeting the Bellinkoff\u2019s extended family and still talks to Grandma often.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"620\" height=\"347\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.aupairusa.org\/host-families\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2024\/02\/fatima-1.jpg\" alt=\"Au pair Fatima with her host parents, host child, and host grandparents. \" class=\"wp-image-10529\" title=\"Image courtesy of the Bellinkoff family\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.aupairusa.org\/host-families\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2024\/02\/fatima-1.jpg 620w, https:\/\/blog.aupairusa.org\/host-families\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2024\/02\/fatima-1-300x168.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cultural exchange hasn\u2019t stopped with Fatima learning about California and its surroundings. As a Jewish family, the Bellinkoffs have introduced Fatima to their culture through Shabbat dinner every Friday and including Fatima in their holiday plans, like celebrating Hanukkah together. Fatima has experienced many firsts with her American host family, like eating one of her now favorite foods: the pastrami sandwich. But she isn\u2019t the only one being introduced to a new culture. The Bellinkoffs have also been exposed to Fatima\u2019s Muslim and South African culture. Fatima often bakes South African dishes for her host family, like malva pudding. Her host mom loves it! Once or twice a week, she also cooks South African dinners, like chicken curry and dumplings.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&#8220;It\u2019s been pretty amazing to be honest.&#8221;<\/p>\n<cite>Fatima<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Fatima\u2019s host family has been so grateful not only for her delicious meals and warm heart, but also for the support they\u2019ve received in helping to raise their son.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&#8220;It does take a village to raise a child. We don\u2019t have a whole village, but we do have Fatima. And for us, that\u2019s enough.&#8221;<\/p>\n<cite>Brian Bellinkoff<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>As for Fatima, she\u2019s in no rush to complete her second program year, with six months left to go. Fatima and her host family still have plans to go camping together this spring. 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